Thursday, August 29, 2013

Pain is a Good Experience

                                   Summaries and Responses
Article: “The Positive of Experiencing Pain”
Author: Jane M Juza
Source: Yahoo Voices
Published: 19 July 2013
            In Jane Juza’s article “The Positive of Experiencing Pain” published on July 13, 2013. Juza states that pain is a good thing. She points out that when individuals are ill or depressed, they are able to take a step back and look at things in a different perspective versus taking everything for granted while one is healthy. According to Juza while you are suffering you are more likely to take the time to figure out who are you, especially during a crisis. While you start to feel better, you decide to make positive changes in your life. She also argues that each person goes through pain differently and that there are different kinds of pain: Emotional, social, gender, etc.  While experiencing different kinds of pain, Juza states that “There is research confirming that a patient's level of knowledge about their condition is critical and leads to a better outcome of dealing with the pain”. By understanding what you are going through, you have a better chance of healing quickly and positively. She also states “You can take the most painful time of your life and not only grow from it but you can turn it into a new career”.  She concludes that no matter what a person may go through there is also a lesson learned that could potentially change your life for the better.
            Jane Juza makes some interesting points in her article.  I believe that when you are sick, hurt or even depressed that it makes you think twice about everything.  You gain a new perspective on things or even different perspectives on the situation you are going through or others you have gone through.  When Juza says that “There is research confirming that a patient's level of knowledge about their condition is critical and leads to a better outcome of dealing with the pain” I agree completely because I know if I do not understand something, it is hard for me to get over it.  I also believe that you can take the most painful thing in your life and turn it into something positive that will benefit yourself. 

Article: “Turning to the Positive: Personal Growth after Trauma”
Author: Melanie A Greenberg Ph. D.
Source: Psychology Today
Published: 4 March 2013
            In Melanie Greenberg’s article “Turning to the Positive: Person Growth after Trauma” she states that experiencing a distressing events can not only cause negative effect but also psychological changes. After experiencing a traumatic incident Greenberg states that you are able to relate to others, find new possibilities, find personal strength, and have a new appreciation of life. While going through a tough time you are able to deepen your bonds with those around you, while also being able to see in return who truly cares about you.  Greenberg then goes on to quote “posttraumatic growth has also shown that the experience of trauma may lead people into new activities, lifestyles, and/or relationships that make life more meaningful, rich, and satisfying”. By going through a horrific event it could lead you to another world where you might volunteer or be in advocate to those around you who might be going through the same thing.  She then states that trauma can destroy one’s self esteem.  People often blame themselves for what has happened and by facing your experience can help you to grow strong. Melanie Greenberg then concludes her article by saying that if you are going through a rough time that you should think about everything meaningful in your life along with your personal strength.  To also think about what you have learned from going through such difficulties.

            The article that I read by Melanie Greenberg was great.  She brought up different topics dealing with traumatic experiences, not just staying on one topic and giving multiple facts about it.  Of course she brought up many factual items to help support her ideas but they were all interesting to me.  The one thing that I liked the most about the article is when she talks about personal strength.  To me it is true because at first when something bad happens to you, more than likely you blame yourself.  You think about what you could have done differently and what you could have done to avoid that situation.  But in the end you gain strength because you then learn how strong you are and how you can deal and tolerate a difficult situation.